I still remember last time I damn hate to communicate through sms or msn.
As I can't see the person's facial expression, can't hear the talking tone, the way they talked or others.
By just reading the message they send to us, we only can interpret the msg by our own imagination.
For example,
imagine the condition when they wrote the msg,
imagine the way they talk,
and imagine how is their respond or what they do when they talk this to us,
when we read the msg they sent us.
Somehow, our imagination will be affected by our own emotion or feeling, which will cause us misinterpretation or misunderstood with the people.
Then..... the DISASTER occur !!!
There will be a crack in any kind of relationship, when we fail to let ppl know what we meant.
There is no longer trust between ppl.
I admit i am sux in expression, always can't successfully give out my msg to others.
But i have tried my best to do it already, and still..... haiz..
Every times before sending the msg out, i always double check there is nothing wrong with the sentence, so no one will misunderstood it.
In the end, it doesn't change what I wanna change. :(
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以下文章已刊登于 5/7/26 【东方日报】。
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2 comments:
mobile phone will solve ur problem XD
Why said mobile phone will solve the problem?
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